I think all couples would benefit from counseling! My husband and I have been talking about going for years; We repeat some very tedious patterns endlessly and have basically the same fight over and over – it would be nice to bring in an adult to help us gain a new perspective on ourselves and […]
Yesterday, I went on the most wonderful date with my friend. We’ve known each other for 20-some years, and she is the one I call at 3 am when all hell has broken loose, or I am just really sad or really happy. She is the first one I told, when I was once proposed […]
Recently, I’ve found myself in a situation, where important things with life-altering consequences are undecided and I’ve thought a lot about “limbo”. It is no fun. Psychologically, uncertainty is one of the most stressful conditions there is. So I researched a bit…
In a religious sense, “Limbo” or purgatory generally refers to the postmortem suffering […]
I just read a blog by a young girl (I don’t know how old she is but 25-ish, I’d guess), who is an amazing writer, cuts herself and is apparently in and out of mental institutions due to severe depression. I read it and I laughed and cried and recognized myself and thought: “Oh, silly […]
Once, when I was 16 and an exchange student, me and a bunch of other girls had a sleep-over at a friend’s house. We stayed up all night and watched movies, ate lots of food and laughed a lot. Nancy from Mexico – just about the most beautiful girl I have ever seen in real […]
On my fridge, there is an article with advice on how to be happy. I thought I’d share the gist of it with you, ’cause dangit, YOU deserve to be happy.
No.1: Show Gratitude
Lots of studies show that the is a correlation between happiness and gratitude. Let me show you why:
Our marvelous […]
You have good days, you have bad days. Today was a turd of a day. Hubby is away on business (or has an affair with some bitch named “Conference”), and I was alone getting two small kids up, cleaned, dressed, feed and ready to go. It’s not curing cancer, it’s not bringing peace to the […]
One thing, that REALLY fills me with energy and joy and happiness – is throwing stuff out.
I love to look around and see NO mess whatsoever, no clutter anywhere, not a grain of dust, everything spick and span. Being rather lazy and messy, this means that I am often slightly annoyed with myself. I […]
My youngest son is 20 months. His vocabulary is still rather limited and “a’dee” is his most often used word. It translates into:
“What is that?”
“Who is that?”
“Look, kitty!”
“Give me some of that!”
“Drink” (= I am thirsty)
“Oh Mummy, aren’t you a sight for sore eyes […]
Yesterday, I had my gall bladder removed. As I was prepared for the surgery, I looked down myself. Support-stockings to prevent blood clots, grandma-undies and a tent of a back-less shirt. All these garments really did nothing to enhance my natural beauty. My natural beauty seemed rather far away, actually. I thought of a […]
Yesterday, my mom got up early and drove 25 miles to come “sit” me and my kids. Lately, everyone in this pox’ed household has been snotty, feverish, coughing and simply all ’round icky-poo. It was time to round up everybody and go see the doctor. As we head to the doctor’s office, at 11 a.m. […]
Have you ever had an epiphany? Realized something profound, something earth shattering, something that rocked you to your core??.. And then you realize that you have had that same realization before…
I have done that a few times. I don’t know what happens in that black box between the two aha-moments; perhaps it is like […]
The other day, as I was applying eye make-up, I noticed that each time I dragged the brush across the eye lid, the skin followed the brush, like some stray dog, following you on the street. The skin used to just sit where it sat. With age, gravity has become a Natural Law that makes […]
Once, as my boyfriend of 3 months – now husband of 1.000 years – got out of bed, he farted. Just a wee little friendly passing of gas – but my reaction came promptly: “I REALLY don’t think we should do that kind of thing in front of each other!” I look back at that […]
And so, the years went on. They enjoyed life, privileged as they were. She was a princess. They enjoyed the company of good friends, particularly the Professor. He had a wonderful sense of humour and a sharp wit. He had been friends with the Doctor since they were both young. The Gentlemen sat in the Doctor’s library and conversed about matters of the world, while smoking Cuban cigars with the Doctor’s personified bands on them.
nd THEN the sex started. Morning, noon, evening, middle of the night. Very loud, very graphic. The walls seemed non-existing. Every thrust, every turn, every moan – we were there for it all. Turned out, he had stamina you W-O-U-L-D N-O-T believe. Which was perfect, because she was a screamer. So their sessions would last for HOURS.
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